Sunday, April 1, 2012

The Results Process


This is the name of the game. We all want something. This is something that falls under the headline results, whether it is a certain amount of money stems from a successful business, a beautiful structure derives from the successful diet, or a closely developed relationships that result from well-bred family life.

Jim Rohn has been very wise in his reference to the parable of the sower and the seed. He emphasized that the results always come those who take the opportunity. The results not only to happen. Sometimes we hit the lucky breaks, lucky breaks and comes after the search. This is almost never something to just fall into our laps. Usually when this happens, we push them, not recognizing their value.

To see the results you seek, regardless of the effort to find, it is absolutely necessary to first decide what you want, and then specify the things you need to do, and then finally do the things that will bring this desire in the field think that the physical , whether they are tangible things in the form of increased prosperity or health, or more intangible but equally important are the bonds of relationships that value and meaning.

Planning and results side by two very important factors, attitude and actions. Attitude fuels our inner will and help us push our desires, even when the rest of the world may turn against us. And there are times when we could find themselves deprived of support of those closest to us. In these events, it certainly must be remembered that in the end, our own dreams is the only one that matters. Those of us who can not support us truly love and want what is best for us, but in the end, they have their own lives and their destinies. If we follow their example to the detriment of their own dreams, we will be the fate of the poor, and unfortunately they only have themselves to blame.

Action, action, the steps you take us from where we are at what we want. The activity should be scrutinized at every step, because it is easy to be busy doing nothing, or to be carried out what drains us of our desires, rather than closer to them. At every turn, we must ask if our present action is valuable in terms of our ultimate goals. If necessary, we adjust what we do. Maybe something not completely abandoned, but when this happens, we must have the courage to say that it does not work, and distract from the task which keeps us busy, but brings no value. It does take courage, too. But when your time checking the numbers and check the results at each step, you will better recognize what needs to be changed and what needs to be clear. The more activities that we undertake, the more things you do, take us to our goals, the faster we get there.

And these results are the ultimate goal, after all, is not it?

I subscribe to Maslovian concept of man as a scientist. I worked on it for years, slowly and enthusiastically learning what makes me tick, and I am sure that I was not even scratched the surface. I am pleased to present articles based on what I learned in hopes it will inspire you to your size!

Finding Faith


Although there are certainly many writings that touch on this one topic, and I decide to pick the one most commonly used. Let me first say that this article is not intended to insult or question one's faith. As I write this article my faith is also examined. Growing up, religion was something that was never pushed on me. I knew as a child that my mother was Catholic, but because it is a ritual almost always go to the Ashe Wednesday, never eat meat on that Friday and Palm Sunday is a must! Both of my sisters is a fellowship and attended Catholic school.

As for my brother and I, and let's just say that they were not affected as the whole religion thing. We just like what was said when they told us. We were taught in the Bible stories, beginning with Adam and Eve and how they are deceived by the serpent, and Noah building the ark for Moses and the separation of the sea. We were taught to believe that Christ is the Son of God and that He died and rose again the third day. But one thing that binds it all together has never been discussed or studied, and it is faith. One word that could affect so many decisions are made. But as you know everything happens for a reason and for a greater purpose.

Finding that purpose is what we all struggle to find and reconcile S. Trying to make sense daily trails and tribulations that we encounter on a daily basis, which refers to what we go with stories that are taught in the Bible. With all the things we were taught to believe, how can we allow that kind of stuff we question their faith? Could this mean that maybe deep down inside that I May have doubts about what he taught us, or would it simply means that we have a better understanding of the Bible and the intent behind the story. I never grew up considering himself a religious person. I was never a break in prayer. Actually I found the whole thing to be on top and a small cinema. The whole talk in tongues seemed a little far fetched. I never realized that my life would lead to the answer I was looking for.

My life is a drastic turn and I became a devout Christian. A whole new world opened up to me and I wanted to be with him! Now when I read the Bible stories are now somehow affect me differently. It was as if I had a brand new understanding, but now I am struggling founded even harder now than I was before. What did not make sense, why I still have my doubts? Feeling like I was in some way to bog down, so I could finally say that I know, love and trust him with even more of a sense of insecurity. But strangely enough I wasn, t alone in this struggle, there is another! Christians who have grown to love are dealt with that same feeling. I was amazed to see that even those who were raised in a religious home, not necessarily guarantee their walk in faith. What I realized is the faith is more than words in the Bible. Faith is the very essence of what motivates us to know without knowing. Yes, despite the circumstances, there is actually something more. Faith is the little voice within us that gives us comfort to know that this too shall pass. Faith is the clear understanding that your life is far greater than the current circumstances. These are the things that were never meant to be taught, but that will be shown!

Waiting to see the wonders of astonishment left us stagnant in seeking the true meaning behind the words. We must realize that we tend to wonder where to find it. Everyday when you wake up in the miracle is done, it is faith that has given you a desire to rise. Your life is now a story in which others will learn. The trials and tribulations of the meeting and wish to get more obstacles will be witness to the faith you have. In our quest for true meaning and understanding of faith is not a story, but just alive.

Internal Champion


Before the advent of video games and the constant bombardment of 24 hours of entertainment streaming directly into our showrooms, the highlight of our year was participating in the carnival, when he came to town. We can hardly wait to ride bobbing wild animal and whirl, round and round on the music that was blasting from the ancient organ. Surrounded by flashing lights and strategically placed mirrors, our heart will race as we all were competing who could reach out and catch the golden ring, which he won another free ride. I believe that the simple act of always giving me everything, trying desperately to reach out and grab the gold ring, helped give birth to my competitive spirit.

There will always be competing in any sporting event I could, trying to win at all costs and overcome all around me, so I could be the best and be recognized. Watching world class athletes standing on the highest pedestal in the center of the stadium, raising hands in a loud roar from the crowd approval, was a great joy for me. I could feel the pride and honor as if I stood on the podium. I held to that dream of one day standing on the podium I roll in glory.

I believe that the dream of being the best is ingrained in us from an early age. Returning to the circle carousel ride and be the one who managed to grab the gold ring. It was not just the fact that it has won yet another free ride on the carousel within which drove me to win, it's a fact that your name is announced over the loudspeaker and all the other kids and parents will applaud your success.

Because of the pressures put on us always be the best and win at any cost, we mistakenly led to believe that success and winning is something you earn is reaching out beyond themselves. Constantly trying to prove to others that you were worthy of their praise, as we prove, earning more, winning all the time or trying to perform in a special way.

This crazy idea that you must always surpass, outmanoeuvre and outperform all around me, the biggest reason why people give up their dreams. They are so desperately trying to win all the time, trying to make self-worth through external praise from others, that when they are not able to be No. 1 all the time and do not get outside as much praise desperately needed, they simply give up and stop trying.

We mistakenly led to believe that the approval of others is always preceded by a sense of self-esteem and confidence and that you are only entitled to feel good about themselves after surpassing all around you. It saddens me to think how many people still live in this mistaken belief and keep yourself trapped in a life they hate, because they did not realize that the key step needed to live a life of meaning and fulfillment is, simply creates a fundamental belief in your own internal value.

It has taken me many years to realize that the source of personal and professional success is applying the following principles in their lives:

The value that you feel should be in the business. Never rely on the opinions of others to develop their feelings of self-esteem or confidence.
Your appearance is just a reflection of your inner value and never measure it.
Your own sense of values ​​is necessary to determine the quality of performance.
Less you try to impress everyone around you, you are more impressive.
Believe in your inner values ​​and stop looking around for approval from others. You are truly magnificent and unique and have so much to offer the world. Stop measuring your success of your foreign property, or you will be constantly up to anxiety. Do not rely on the cheers of their peers to drive their success. You can never succeed in the long run, if your concept of success always depends on winning, a perfect performance every time and hearing the cheers of everyone around him.

It is clear that good looks, talent and other qualities are not evenly distributed, but the one thing none of us is still short of the value. All are rich in value, more than we could ever hope to use in several lifetimes. The game of life has never played on a level playing field in terms of education, with the support of the environment, resources available and many other circumstances beyond our control, but I know that you are born with an unlimited value and ability to be the best possible version of yourself. What are you waiting for, to unlock that value and become the best you can be. Keep in mind I said that the best you can and can not be the best of all time.

You were born for the championship, but they allowed themselves to be broken down by knowledge, unrealistic expectations, exposure judgmental environment and your need for external recognition. You came into this world of winners, but they are not programmed to live in harmony with your highest potential, because the response you receive from your environment. Identify your inner value and used as the basis for achieving their full potential. Become a winner inside, believe in yourself and you can succeed at anything.

Lion Or A Sheep


If you hide the knowledge of and within the crowd, do not expect more than mediocrity. If you need to improve self-esteem and lack self-confidence to be your true self and really stands out among the crowd, this is your choice? Would you rather have the courage to be a person who can dream, or someone like that is admired especially for one reason or another? Have you even tried in the past, that the other person, but failed?

These are important questions to ask yourself if you want to go into the business world, to continue a particular career, or even to achieve personal ambitions of some kind that involves interaction with other people.

While it is true that highly successful people share common traits, such as determination, motivation, high self-regarding, self-confidence, etc. It is also true that all the fiercely individualistic. They are not concerned about criticism or competition. They see the goal in their minds eye, and nothing will be deducted from his or prevent them from achieving.

Unsuccessful people tend to be undecided, refused to change, a lack of faith in yourself, to name just a few of their negative traits.

So, if you want to be successful, where in the past that have either failed or never tried, or alternatively they are successful and to a lesser extent the desire to achieve their full potential in itself - then look for some kind of therapeutic intervention is definitely the way forward.

Why would you want to search for therapeutic intervention? Because they can determine areas that need to be worked on and developed. They can provide you with specific skills and techniques you can use in different situations and scenarios. Very often our unconscious mind is aware of far more than we could imagine yourself on a conscious level.

Speaking registered therapist or trainer to ensure complete privacy. If you talk with a friend, but reliable, or a family member, there is always the chance that at some later date, its secrets could be exposed. For whatever reason, may terminate your friendship, or family member may be innocent and well intentionally violated his trust to another source 'close' family members and suddenly your life could be in some kind of personal turmoil. Addressing the independent therapist who has no emotional attachment to you is the best way forward.

Learn more about how you can benefit you and be that person deep down desire to be. Go to the following website for more information and find out how you can qualify for free treatment.

Small Achievements


My biggest success so far occurred last year, from 5 May and 8 of May. During these three days I have completely disassembled my toilet then put it together again in working condition. Still gives me a little glow of satisfaction to see my handy work.

This May not seem like a big deal for you, but I am a woman in my mid-sixties, which completely lacks the do-it-yourself experience. It all started when I decided that my bathroom tiles. The obstacle is in front of my toilet. It had to be completely removed so that the tiles can be laid underneath. My plan was to make an appointment with a plumber for an estimate. But when I stopped off at the library book sale, black and free publications about the plumbing looked at me in the face. I bought it on impulse. After I looked through the book, I discovered that it was not a big deal around the toilet. Basically, it's just a collection of porcelain parts screwed together in a logical manner. Himself says, "I do", I gathered some tools and started. It looked easy in principle, in reality it is hard going.

From toilet sitting very close to where he was a man of rubber around and disconnect the water supply. One piece that should come free easily glued instead of screwed together. I had to buy a hacksaw to cut free. The following steps are smooth and easy: toilet tank came off and floor bolts out effort. But this ceramic intestine weighed more than fifty pounds. This is a job, maneuvering it through the bathroom door. Last but not least was the unpleasant job of cleaning out old, sticky, blackened wax ring installed in the bottom of the toilet bowl. This paragraph seals the bowl above the sewer opening in the floor.

After the tile is laid and grouted, it was time to get back into the toilet. I was a big improvement when I discovered that I was missing a small rubber ring that creates a seal between the toilet bowl and water (this is called a donut). I mistakenly put it. I went to the hardware store to buy a replacement, but did not carry the exact model. Clerk sold me a one-size-fits-all brand. It took me over an hour to figure out how to make a new ring they see fit. In the end I was all back in place and bolted down. With concern I pressed the flush handle. The water swirled down the bowl and then ran to the mailbox just as is supposed to do. Nothing leaked. I danced a little jig.

For this triumph I learned I could complete the tasks of intimidation following the instructions step by step. I learned how to get personal satisfaction from using your hands for mechanical tasks. I have learned never to throw away part if you buy a replacement first. Most importantly, I crossed my limits. If I can do it, so can you.

Janssen is Sybal Registered Success Team. She leads workshops and facilitates the success of the team based on the training model developed Barbara Sher, a leading authority on goal achievement.

Business Make Money


If you feel like you are going through the motions at work, and you are looking to be excited about his future again, you'll do something different than what we have done so far. With a little effort and creativity, you can use your talents to continue their lives with more joy and abundance of retaining those things that you have worked so hard. So, let's say you started. How can we do?

Discover the purpose of

There are patterns all around us. There are patterns in nature, in history and in our behavior. Patterns give us comfort and make life predictable. They speed up the learning process for us. Our ability to create forms that are so second nature to us that we often do not know the pattern more. We leave traces of ourselves about what our purpose is to produce the patterns in our lives. The trick is to step outside themselves to notice. Take some time to look at patterns in your life. What hobbies you had in your life? What books are on the shelf? What TV shows do not watch? Who are the people in your life who inspire you? What are all these things have in common? Write a sentence: My goal is to _______.

Define your dreams

Once we specify what we are going, we can step into the creative space of our dreams. It is during this step is not to judge. Judging will kill creativity faster than anything around. Let's see all things are possible. Get the idea out. You may not use any of them, but again, you'll see patterns. You can include the common aspects and ideas in your map. Some of these tools define their dreams are easy to write your dreams on paper, have a friend interview you so that you can think aloud or putting together a dream board where you'll make a collage of images and words to represent their dreams. Have fun and amazement to accept the child as you do.

Draw your map

Your map is that you are where you are to where your dreams. By mapping out our trip at least at a high level, we create a sense of direction that supports our purpose. We do not need to know every job before we started. We May even change the way our map when we have more information. See your dreams. Choose one that you really want to focus on. What is your main priority? What are the major action steps to be taken so that you can move towards their dreams?

Develop your team

Really big dreams require a team. To go after their dreams while maintaining those things that you have worked so hard, we create time. The way in which we created during the time of taking advantage of others through the team. Your team should not be employees. They can be informal help. They may be independent service providers. Look at the map. What items in this plan can someone else do it? Who you need on your team? Where can you find them?

Dive into motion

In order to achieve different results, we have to do something different. You have a purpose. Do you have your dream list and your map. You are your team, or at least recognize. Now you need to get yourself and your team according to the action. Take your map tasks are assigned to individuals and to give each task deadline. The deadline may be your best guess. Want to have some aim to help create a sense of urgency to get things done.

Direct Momentum

To paraphrase Newton's first law - a body in motion tends to stay in motion. This holds true for teams and for the realization of dreams. So, how do we maintain momentum? Responsibility. Size of the goal or task is not important. We can ignore the great task as easily as a small task. However, if you know someone will be checking in us, we are more likely to do something. This is true even if we have a strong self-starter. Try it. Find someone that you care what people think of you. This could be a close friend, coach or mentor. Ask them to them to call you in a week to see if you made a specific task. You might be surprised at how much you will be able to do this week.

As can be seen from the perspective of purpose-driven money making and implementing their tickets, you will feel more fulfilled. Work with your team and develop a momentum that will move in the direction of your dreams. This movement is what creates joy in our lives.

Practical Success Thinking


Do you know it or not, success will always come down to how badly you want it. There is no doubt that there are three kinds of people in the world. In the will, and won'ts can'ts. First it provides all the second is against everything, and the third fail in everything. Who are you?

Apologies are a dime a dozen, easy and anyone can make them worse. The common key to all successful people is not talent, but the extraordinary determination and drive. They decide to achieve. There will always be a mountain to climb in any way to success. Apply to accept anything but the best.

Successful people know how to motivate themselves before they experience bad days. You have the same 24 hours as everyone else. How do you make a difference and make life better than it was yesterday. This kind of stubborn determination is often compared to that of a mule. Mule especially love their job and as a result. They can be very hard to miss because of its size and stable and ready to get the job done, so are worth their weight in gold.

It is easy to be average, but it's hard to be the best .... be tremendous. Most people play it safe and are not willing to take risks and go for it. In life there are no guarantees. Peace has its' victory, but it takes brave people to overcome them. Are you the best or only a job well done?

A most notable value for your trust hunches. Even if you've done all your homework, gather all the facts ... when making decisions, you have to trust your instincts. Decision making is a measure uspjeha.Osoba that can immediately make a decision can usually be moved to other situations and circumstances.

Wherever you go, make sure it is on a higher level. Turn the head of the impossible. Always do what most people will not.

Accomplish Something


The first phase was to fulfill what you want is to decide what it is. Limit the border, so that it becomes possible. Other images can be added at a later date, if you want For example, if you go on vacation and want to have some ideas about how to order food, find things in the supermarkets and go shopping or to understand the traffic signs that you need some basic words and phrases. It does not need the whole language. Phrase book will give you the basics of food, some useful phrases and verb where you need to select the most used parts, as well as numbers. Small dictionary of words to cover the unexpected.

If you learn it carefully and try and hear native speakers pronounce words, you will achieve what you need to do. If later he became intrigued with the language, you can take it further.

But the project may choose to be higher. Working for the degree can be solved in a similar manner. Try to see three or four years of hard learning can be daunting for the brightest people. If you break the work will be covered in a year, courses, subjects under study and devise a system that suits the idea becomes feasible. Everyone learns differently, but it has a length of wallpaper lining paper and breaking down the elements of each section in the beginning of the categories. The survey showed most people can manage to remember seven to nine facts together. If you break down each piece of work in seven or nine elements, each element is the number of parts can have a form in your mind. For people who use visual images and color helps organizations to hearing people sing the work, linking it with a piece of music may help.This way you can accumulate a large amount of material pretty easily in my mental library and can access it. It still requires the effort of learning, but it is now manageable chunks. By the way learning from others seems to be useful.

When the project is something physical as well as learning how to access the same furniture, but adjusted slightly. Research the best teacher, school or organization that offers what you want. If the preliminary stages of learning to make the joints seem tedious stick with it, because it is the foundation work. Practice at all becomes easier.

To recap, the goal to improve, in order to control the borders, keep the important points in the parts do not become sidetracked by what is unimportant at this stage, the goal is certainly possible to avoid disappointment and be persistent. Most people can do much more than they believe they can.

Musical Future


Imagine a drunkard from the musicians who had seven children with a woman who considers herself a friend of his children. Only three of their seven children survived, and the oldest was over-achiever. At the age of seven half is performing in public. It was not good enough for his father, who told people the child was only six ... such that seven half was not good enough to be considered above average or talented. Before he was twelve, he wrote his music teachers, and it is compared with the likes of Mozart. What many do not know is that this young man is taking care of their brothers and sisters, his mother, and filling in for his father who is often rendered useless because of his struggles with alcohol. He was the only child I have, but the man in the household. As a modest beginning.

The young man completed his education through grants and the generosity of others. A few years after he began his education, he was called back home. His mother was sick and dying. He was torn between school and his duties to his loving mother and family. He did not let him stop and pursued by the aid and generosity again several years later and returned to school where he could be surrounded with the things he loved music and culture. He never returned to his native home and has not let his humble past to slow down your search for a bright and amazing future.

The young man loved music and culture, and studied some of the great composers like Mozart and Haydn. Some of his peers thought his music was weird, but he followed his heart and his dreams and wrote music, played and performed music. He was delighted with them, while others drop kick came his way. He was afraid and angry ... he lost his hearing. Imagine dishonesty musician who can not hear the incredible works of your hands?

The young man struggled with the illness of his deafness, as well as financial problems over the years. His brother died and left him to care for his widow and young children, and yet the young man continued to write music and perform for some of the most famous and successful people in his country. Its popularity is growing, even though his hearing is declining. He did not live to adulthood, but died before the age of 60 before the storm as it makes a fitting for his success and even more exciting life.

What a wonderful story of overcoming life's road blocks and turning lemons into lemonade. The man we are talking about ten symphonies written in his life, and Franz Schubert was a coffin bearer at his funeral. His was a life lived well and he was given a gift that will live forever in song. Beethoven is an amazing man with strong moral character. He has used his difficult past as a crutch, and he has created a beautiful future for yourself and those who appreciate his music - he did it by faith in yourself and those around him who believed in him. Thank you for setting a great example of Beethoven that is still relevant today.

Energy and Success


Energy plays an important role in your success and fulfillment. It was a life force that moves through who you are and whatever you do.

Everyone has a different definition of what success means to them. But whatever your definition, success is like a coin - it has two sides. To demonstrate the point in the past I coached a client who was having difficulty concentrating on his business, with the anxiety and poor concentration.

He had a big financial goals for your life and business, but his lack of concentration and anxiety are affecting everything he does.

Another client is trying to run your business is suffering from low confidence and self esteem. She keeps herself active distract from these issues, but its activity is rarely result in actual profits.

These are just two examples among many who present so much that I come across as a coach, where 'being' internal affairs or have a detrimental impact on the 'work' activities

There is a clear difference in energy between the health of a self-esteem and not between trust and distrust. That energy is converted into the way we interact with others, or our business to others. It also gets picked up by others.

If you think about everything in your life that you feel passionate about, and then think about something you have no interest, you can feel the contrast differences when we consider its response.

Your energy is important for your success, and I do not just mean that in a pure physical sense of the word. It is clear that if you are not good, it will affect your ability to be at your best. However, it is important to understand that human energy is multidimensional.

Scientists have shown that the energy emitted by the thoughts and feelings, as well as brain and heart cells.

In fact, if you look at the energy field within the heart is 5000 times larger than the brain, but so many people talk about putting their heads before their hearts. What must be either or? Why are they doing together?

In fact if you look at all the world's most powerful microscope that all the energy of interaction energy of atoms separated by only schedule.

In the case of the above clients I have worked with them to help them comply with them first, so they can be at their personal best, and then from that place helps them to focus their other goals.

So many people pay more attention to the event, stating that the massive campaign victory. But my challenge is that you need both.

There is a difference between activity and accomplishment, focus and centered focus, and these are just some of the gaps that my personal best coaching closes.

There is a difference between the performance of the site evaluation form with enthusiasm, passion and conviction, in respect of the way without this inner vibrancy, resulting in carrying out activities in a mechanical way.

So pay attention to your own energy, and realize that success starts with a decision to be successful, which is in the business.

Learn how to keep your energy into alignment with your goals to come from the heart and using your brain and mind to help.

Develop a personal development plan that addresses the important ingredients such as inner desires, beliefs, values, emotional vibrancy, strength of heart and mind.

Employing a kinesiologist will help you determine where you are in alignment with your goals or not.

Kinesiology is a powerful way of working with the human energy field through muscle testing, to detect imbalance and non-alignment problems at the subconscious level

Pay attention to the 'being' aspects of your success will not only bring you in alignment with your goals, but will have a profound effect on how to do things, what you begin to realize, and a fuller expression of success than ever before.

Anita Narayan was supported by a author, speaker and coach. She is soon to publish her book Breaking Free from prison survival.